It’s all about evolving and being better tomorrow than you may have been today ❤
I remember running around the house pretending to be a princess from teddy-land, sprinkling my glitter on all my bears so they can be happy and protect me from my big bad brother. My Dad routinely told me that I’m beautiful and my smile made him smile. He protected me from harm and focused on loving life, but at one point it wasn’t enough to combat the negativity from others. I was too fat or too skinny. My hair, outfit, makeup, was judged and depicted to every last drop. I was never enough. Emotionally, I’ve let a relationship drain me by giving him power to steal my inner peace. I’ve felt alone and broken. I didn’t smile enough, constant anxiety, and spiraled downwards. I thought I hid my emotions well, but people saw it in my eyes. My smile didn’t give Dad good spirits, instead concern. I stressed in proving myself to others that I lost myself by letting their opinions dictate my life.
The moment you decide to be yourself, your inner beauty will resonate. Instead of focusing on imperfections; focus on the bigger picture – experiencing life! I started to pick off every negative aspect that covered up who I once knew because I missed the girl who saw possibilities everywhere, that appreciated happiness when she gave to others, who never set limits and never gave up. Thanks to life awakening experiences and encouragement from a handful of people, I adjusted my sails. I replaced negative thoughts with positive ones, let go to toxic people, and restored my focus on inspiring others. Life is good and better than ever – because I have the power to make it so.
To my lovely ladies: ignore anyone who tries to define you or give limitations in your life. Nothing holds you back more than your own insecurities. You’re beautiful so practice to love yourself more, and dream big through positivity. I’m here to inspire you, one red heel at a time 💗 By the way, I want to mention that I whole heartedly enjoy responding to email messages from you all in Asia. It warms my heart to know that I can encourage and inspire someone across the world from me, and for that I thank you. You give my life a meaning 🙂
An old OOTD that I never posted. I still love every detail of it ❤
Oh Nelly, I love you.
“Our love floated out the window
Our love floated out the back door
Our love floated up in the sky to heaven
It’s part of a plan
It’s back in God’s hands”
Have a good day <3,
The bipolar weather of Texas is nothing new; I was soaking in the sun all day yesterday and now I’m literally soaking in water. Excuse my feminine philosophy:
When it rains, wear platforms.
Have a nice day friends ❤
Sorry in advance if this post offends anyone. Anyways, I feel so lucky to have my hands on this MTTM tee 🙂 I love the brand because it’s the perfect fit for women with empowerment and can hold her own like a man. Lovin’ the Mob since ’04, you ladies are a big inspiration to me.
Here is what I wore:
Have a nice day friends ❤
I woke up early this morning to put together some fun gifts for the breast cancer event at LF today.
“In the U.S., a woman is diagnosed with breast cancer every 2.3 minutes. That’s more than 625 women every day.”
“The Breast Cancer Research Foundation funds more than 170 dedicated scientists at major medical institutions around the world, whose research has led to advances in detection, prevention, and treatment.”
Breast Cancer Research Foundation
Have a beautiful day ❤
Happy Sunday friends. It’s my last day in Orlando for the AFR Yellow Ribbon event. I had an amazing experience learning about deployment; how to cope, how to deal, who can help, benefits, where to find support etc. Even though I am not being the one deployed, it’s tough on loved ones back at home who have to take on the role of the person leaving. We are left with our significant others’ responsibilities and it’s a hard job to take on. I’ll save the rest of my thoughts for a ramblings/personal post 🙂
Here is what I wore today (I took my sweater off because it was pretty sunny out) : I love the little details on this white dress I got from LF. Yes, it’s the first of Fall and I wore white 🙂
Have a nice day ❤